Hi Tertot2
I can imagine the feeling when you "opened up" to your girlfriend and she responded in the way she did
But looking at it from the side of the female in the relationship...many feel it is a threat to them
Yes we all know a girl in a mac looks dead sexy...and when asked to wear a mac to have "fun" in bed many do feel it is not them as themselves makes a guy want to do it with them ...they need a sexy thing like a mac and turn their man on
Looking back to when I first got married I did tell my wife about what I considered a harmless interest but her response was "negative" so valuing her as someone I treasured it was never mentioned again
I do often wonder if she had accepted my rainwear passion I could have coaxed her into more than just accepting me and my macs...joining me in intimate times which although many dream about it just never happens
Take care
Peter