Rainworshipper wrote: October 9th, 2024, 6:54 am
In the local church there is a woman who has caught my eye, she is slender with long dark hair and a cheerful face, I never have the chance to get chatting with her, I find her very attractive as she is. Walking around the local supermarket I notice her again wearing a navy blue cagoule looking even more delightful. I've got get to know her somehow!
Hello Rainworshipper.
It is true that I am of your opinion. A beautiful woman looks even more beautiful when she wears a raincoat, especially if it's shiny. When I have such an experience, I try to approach the woman to compliment her on the beauty of her clothing and I also try to tell her where to make her understand that she has charm.
Rainworshipper wrote: October 9th, 2024, 6:54 am
In the local church there is a woman who has caught my eye, she is slender with long dark hair and a cheerful face, I never have the chance to get chatting with her, I find her very attractive as she is. Walking around the local supermarket I notice her again wearing a navy blue cagoule looking even more delightful. I've got get to know her somehow!
Good evening Rainworshipper.
I agree with you. When a woman is beautiful, wearing a beautiful, shiny raincoat will make her even more beautiful. When this kind of situation happens to me, I approach the beautiful woman to compliment her on her outfit to create contact.
annabell-cagoule wrote: October 7th, 2024, 7:38 am
all I could think was, ‘if anyone from rainwear central had walked in and seen us two there chatting in the shop, they would have had a bit of a moment, passed out or messed their rainwear lol.
I'm straight so probably would have been ok, although I would have definitely done a double take. However, if I walked into my local village shop and saw 2 ladies in rubber riding boots then we'd be close to pass out territory! "Suddenly my knees have gone weak!"
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I don't have time to read everything, sorry, but the subject line and initial post caught my eye and I have to reply.
Every line of that opening post feels very similar (young age, tried to suppress it and dispose of jackets). From my experience - don't suppress it. When I got into a serious relationship I disposed of loads of rain jackets and now regret it, and wish I could reinstate many of them.
I am happily married, and I'm very lucky that my wife wears rain jackets every time we make love. Most of them are cagoule style (lightweight, packaway, short zipped jackets) and tonight for the first time I had the courage to wear one myself too. She thought nothing of it!?!
My point here, is that I'm now 44 and have tried a couple of times in my years to reset. The reality is my fetish is clearly permanent and can't be denied; and crucially, any attempt at denial has simply meant I've thrown away a part of what satisfied me, perhaps with a short-term optimism but longer term leaving me worse off.
Accept your fetish, and if you're lucky like me, perhaps you will have the chance to embrace it to the full as well.
I empathise massively, and I know few people will be as lucky as I am with finding a wiling partner, but am and happy to help a fellow fetishist if I can.
shinydoug wrote: November 11th, 2024, 8:40 am
You are so lucky! My girlfriend knows about my fetish but don’t understand it and it makes me feel odd and full of shame.
Hello shinydoug.
Your friend doesn't understand your fetish.
But did you clearly present the situation to him?
Of course, it's legitimate for her not to have any sensation. But for you, it's a right to be able to enjoy your passion. After all, you don't take anything away from him, or hurt him by doing yourself good!
My wife is also aware of my fetishism but does not experience the sensations that we can feel. But it starts from the principle if there is passion, we must live it.
She is happy to see me living my passion.
Indulging yourself is a right! As long as it doesn't harm anyone!
I developed a cagoule fetish about the time I retired some 20+ years ago. I was particularly turned on by the cagoule top with its horizontal zip across the front and its hood and the swishy nylon trousers too. I sometimes met up with an other cagoule wearer who would periodically come up from Wales to London Victoria and I would visit his hotel where we would enjoy time in his hotel bed wearing just our cagpules and our waterproof rainpants with nothing on underneath. Recently I have rediscovered these cagoules in what seems to me an identical style to the originals. Too old to do anything else these days I still enjoy sleeping in my cagoule and rainpants.
JoPVC wrote: November 11th, 2024, 3:15 pm
My wife is also aware of my fetishism but does not experience the sensations that we can feel. But it starts from the principle if there is passion, we must live it.
She is happy to see me living my passion.
This is the same for me. My wife gets no direct pleasure from it, but understands that it works for me and is doing no harm.
If anything, I'm the one that feels weird about it more than she does. I justify it to myself that it's deemed entirely normal for men to enjoy their partner wearing lingerie/heels etc, so why should it be any different with a rain jacket?
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