Ok where do I start?? At the beginning I hear you say sooooo here goes…
PVC rainwear and ladies pvc clothes has an does play a huge part in my life to the point that it effects my daily life, I use the word effects because that’s what it actually does now…. I now feel ashamed and guilty of my selfish pleasures I have with my pvc items to the point that im close to binning thousands of pounds of pvc wear I have collected over some years.
I have been very lucky with the opposite sex excepting and sharing my fetish with me in the past (ex wife) and now a lovely caring girlfriend…. But I just wish I could offer love to my girlfriend with out having her dress up in pvc for me, don’t get me wrong it’s absolutely fantastic in plastic but that’s my fantasy.
She never complains but I do, because I wish I was like errr dare I say ‘normal’ and enjoy the pleasure of JUST skin and the naked body. Obviously I find the female body very sexy but more so when dressed in pvc. And that’s what bugs me…
I have a love hate relationship with pvc ,,, I hate the fact I love it…
Am I on my own with this issue or does this effect others who share the same fetish as mine?
I’m even contemplating hypnosis to try rid my fetish ( if it works)
Fetish guilt.
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Deleted User 5375
Re: Fetish guilt.
First of all, you are not alone. I suspect that a lot of members have similar feelings, including me. The fact that you do find your girlfriend sexy when naked is the cornerstone of getting this sorted. Like you, I’d have my wife dressed head to toe in plastic and be dressed the same, but it is very rare that we are both dressed up, usually just one, but often neither. The key for me was to force myself to understand that people have feelings, raincoats don’t. Your girlfriend deserves to be number one in your relationship, and so you must be prepared to leave the PVC out now and again. Get romantic. Do something SHE wants, make it all about her. Yes you will want to get out a Mac, but don’t. Once you get it into your head that you are giving her what she wants, it will be much easier. Also, don’t take “I just want you to be happy” crap from her - of course she does, but guaranteed there is something she would like you to do for her that is not PVC related. And, if during sex she makes a move to get something plastic to wear, resist, toss it aside. If you can do this you won’t regret it!
I guarantee that none of your PVC items will be sulking!
JM
I guarantee that none of your PVC items will be sulking!
JM
Re: Fetish guilt.
Two very sensible and balanced comments from the above contributors.
Whilst not wholly responsible for the proceedings, my desire for mackintosh adoration was, in part, actually used against me in the divorce process. Mind you, in those days, petitioners were encouraged to find all sorts of reasons to declare 'unreasonable behaviour '.
My sincere regret is that Forums such as are included in R C, were not available to share and (hopefully) understand with those alienated by the wonders of rainwear.
Whilst not wholly responsible for the proceedings, my desire for mackintosh adoration was, in part, actually used against me in the divorce process. Mind you, in those days, petitioners were encouraged to find all sorts of reasons to declare 'unreasonable behaviour '.
My sincere regret is that Forums such as are included in R C, were not available to share and (hopefully) understand with those alienated by the wonders of rainwear.
Re: Fetish guilt.
PS. Further to the above post, if any female or CD - sympathetic to my likes and in my area - please feel free to contact!!
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Deleted User 5375
Re: Fetish guilt.
When I was younger my own desire to dress my girl in PVC ended a relationship, although I was only engaged at the time, not married yet. It took that failure to realise my mistake - in a relationship the other person must come first. My liking for plastic was mentioned as part of the reason for the breakup. Unfortunately, as we lived together, whilst clearing out the house all the rainwear was disposed of before I could get to it, so not only lost the girl, but my collection was well.
JM
JM
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Re: Fetish guilt.
Jelly man thankyou for your advice, I will practice what you mentioned and try and appreciate my girlfriend without my fetish getting in the way,I would also like to thank the other members for there input as the advice is much needed, I’m so pleased I’m not on my own about mentioned topic…
I’m only reaching out as my fetish has now gotten to the point that it seems to control me In selfish ways .I.e when the mrs goes shopping( no need to explain ) then in the evening if she wants some loving I’m all burnt out,also watching her dress in pvc although it’s very erotic it’s now a little degrading for her although she never complains, she does this for me…
I guess some members reading this must be saying how lucky I am to have a willing partner who engages with my fetish and yes you are right, but like jelly man said previously rain wear etc doesn’t have feelings,but my girlfriend does.
Sorry for being the party pooper with my problem. Once I am able to get get my fetish under full control again I will hopefully be able to tell you some off my positive encounters/walks/types of clothing I have etc.
Thanks everyone
I’m only reaching out as my fetish has now gotten to the point that it seems to control me In selfish ways .I.e when the mrs goes shopping( no need to explain ) then in the evening if she wants some loving I’m all burnt out,also watching her dress in pvc although it’s very erotic it’s now a little degrading for her although she never complains, she does this for me…
I guess some members reading this must be saying how lucky I am to have a willing partner who engages with my fetish and yes you are right, but like jelly man said previously rain wear etc doesn’t have feelings,but my girlfriend does.
Sorry for being the party pooper with my problem. Once I am able to get get my fetish under full control again I will hopefully be able to tell you some off my positive encounters/walks/types of clothing I have etc.
Thanks everyone
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Deleted User 5375
Re: Fetish guilt.
Don’t apologise Mac, we all know how hard it can be getting accepted, and happy to help however I can.
You are 90% of the way there by recognising that things are getting out of hand. Next challenge is to make sure you have enough left for your girlfriend when she gets home. I am the same, when my wife goes out, it’s on with the plastic for some solo fun. I always make sure I do things as soon as she has gone, and don’t take too long. That maximises the chance that I will be up for more naughtiness later, and having indulged earlier, I am less inclined to need PVC later. Strange thing is, that as I have got older, I can do things relatively soon afterwards - when I was young it was once and that was it for the day! Just bear in mind that you may well lose your girlfriend if she is starting to feel uncomfortable with the arrangements, and given that she is accepting of your desires, she sounds like a definite keeper if you can.
Now sorry if this bit gets a bit heavy. As you are feeling guilt you may be tempted to tell your girlfriend that you won’t ask her to wear PVC again or sometimes. Only say that if you absolutely can keep that promise, the last thing anyone wants is to be let down. Be realistic about what you can do, and take it slow and build up. If you need it you can start sex with her in PVC then take it off as soon as you feel you can before the end.
Best of luck, and keep us posted on how you get on.
JM
You are 90% of the way there by recognising that things are getting out of hand. Next challenge is to make sure you have enough left for your girlfriend when she gets home. I am the same, when my wife goes out, it’s on with the plastic for some solo fun. I always make sure I do things as soon as she has gone, and don’t take too long. That maximises the chance that I will be up for more naughtiness later, and having indulged earlier, I am less inclined to need PVC later. Strange thing is, that as I have got older, I can do things relatively soon afterwards - when I was young it was once and that was it for the day! Just bear in mind that you may well lose your girlfriend if she is starting to feel uncomfortable with the arrangements, and given that she is accepting of your desires, she sounds like a definite keeper if you can.
Now sorry if this bit gets a bit heavy. As you are feeling guilt you may be tempted to tell your girlfriend that you won’t ask her to wear PVC again or sometimes. Only say that if you absolutely can keep that promise, the last thing anyone wants is to be let down. Be realistic about what you can do, and take it slow and build up. If you need it you can start sex with her in PVC then take it off as soon as you feel you can before the end.
Best of luck, and keep us posted on how you get on.
JM